Handle a wedding is a tough work, and make a wedding more perfect and alive will be more difficult. You and your parents should be busy to do something with relatives or family members, such as invite friends, guests, relatives, writing invitation letters or purchase wines or food if you do not process the wedding party in a restaurant.
But in countryside or rural areas, mostly handle the wedding in groom?s house, and they will employ cook to make food for guests. It sounds so busy and tough, but happy and alive. At the meantime, you can enjoy the process of the wedding and food, even the talks between the friends who have never met each for a long time.
Today I will talk about some little things about what parents will do or say on the wedding ceremony, this is just what I see during my relative?s wedding ceremony in countryside.
On that wedding day, groom and their parents have to stop their busy preparation for the wedding things, like choose wedding dress or special occasion dresses, purchase wedding rings or jewels, buy furniture or ornaments to decorate their new house, just enjoy the process of the wedding.
Also his parents also can stop to do other busy things to have a rest, they have busy time for their son?s wedding for several months. But sometimes, male parents are the most busy roles on the wedding day, they have no time to enjoy the lively and interesting scene, they have to greet with many guests who attending the wedding ceremony, or talk more with their friends,.
As long as the wedding will start, groom?s parents can stop their busy chores, and will face up their daughter-in-law and son sitting on the main seat to wait the ceremony to be held, if not, the wedding ceremony will not start. This is the basic rules in China, especially in countryside.
When all the things prepared well, bride wearing white wedding dress holding red roses and groom dressing formal suits holding bride?s hand stand in front of their parents and to bow their parents deeply, after that, the bride must call mum and dad for male parents, they replied with smile and give red envelope and say: ?live well, have baby early! ? simple and real words from deep mind of their parents, this is the true blessings from honest countryside parents, so moving.
What about the western wedding day?